30 Kinky Ideas For Bondage Play – Live Chat

Before we get into the nitty-gritty of 30 kinky ideas for bondage play let’s discuss a little about what bondage is and what it actually means.

What is Bondage

We are going to talk about a kinky fetish a lot of people know of it even in the vanilla world a lot of people know about this it’s probably one of the most popular ones it’s called bondage.

It is such an easy term to say it’s such an easy word to just spit out yet it’s very complex but there’s more to it than meets the eye when you hear the word bondage you automatically think S&M, pain domination but what is bondage really?

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Bondage has a few different meanings but the one that I particularly want to talk about is the one where you can sensually tie, bind, restrain your partner for erotic aesthetic and so much a sensory stimulation although bondage is closely related to a state of masochism it doesn’t necessarily imply it.

What Types Is There 

Bondage itself can be an end to itself meaning one can use bondage just for the sake of it and nothing else there are a couple of different types, one is bondage for purpose decorative bondage, film bondage, torture bondage, meditative bondage, some of the bondage that I personally use in my lifestyle and for work is bondage for purpose torture bondage film bondage and decorative bondage. Check out our kinky bondage cams here

When it comes to meditation bondage it is actually pretty popular for a lot of people especially for couples now I know a lot of couples who use bondage when it comes to sexual activities in the bedroom and they basically use it for a  couple of different reasons one that I know of is it’s a very sexually reaffirming practice and I know that a lot of couples want to use it to tease their partner to do foreplay with a partner.

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I have personally tied up some of my partners in the bedroom and is the top or the one in control it gives me that great feeling that I can do whatever I want with my partner, of course, this is consensual so my partner is allowing me to do whatever I want with them.

Now my partner aka the bottom gets the feeling of helplessness that they’re weak that they can’t do anything while they’re in bondage and that sort of gives them that really aroused relaxing feeling and that’s also one of the reasons why a lot of people like to be in bondage.

It can also be used for sex or in conjunction with any BDSM activity and if you guys don’t know it yet the letter B and BDSM actually stands or bondage so the most common question that I get from a lot of people especially from vanilla people is why would anyone want to be tied up right isn’t that the question that pops in your head why would anyone want to be tied up?

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Well there are a multitude of reasons why people want to be tied up one of the most common reasons why people want to be tied up is because of corporal passivity they want to feel helpless,  they want to be immobile and it puts them in that so-called subspace where someone else takes control and most of these bottoms are completely aware that they are going to be in that state and I believe it at the same time since the bottoms are  tied up and they can’t do anything it also focuses on the main feature of bondage which if you tie someone up you’re basically making them vulnerable to any sexual act out there.

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A lot of people believe that being in bondage sort of opens up their inner spirituality if you just basically give up everything to your partner and that on its own gives the bottom a feeling of  pleasure  A feeling of completion bondage is actually very popular it’s very prominent in BDSM scenes and foreplay now the great thing about it is that you don’t have to be  kinky or a fetish person to master the art of it even vanilla people can actually become masters when it comes to tying up their partners. You can also visit one of our seriousMistresses

There are tons and tons and tons of different types of bondage out there-there are also different uses for it. I  want to talk about some of the main things that really mattered to me most when it comes to bondage and I wanted to share with you guys my experiences when it comes to it.

Bondage has been really popular for a very long time and you know we all know that it can be dangerous as well, now this is just a precaution for everyone who wants to try it okay  as it can actually be very very dangerous  so I don’t want you to be trying this I don’t want you to be trying like intricate eyes on your partner and not really know what to do after.

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I want you to make sure that when you try bondage you know it leaves the basic thing of having an EMT pair of scissors okay EMT scissors that’s what you need in case your partner is struggling already in the ropes in case you don’t know what you’re doing you can’t untie your partner for some reason and it’s starting to hurt use those scissors, okay you can replace a rope but you can’t replace your partner.

If you really want to go through the step-by-step process of going through bondage for safety all you have to do is search for it online.

There are many different types of bondage and we will discuss all of these types on different pages on the site, but let’s now take a look at our kinky ideas list below

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30 kinky Ideas for Bondage play

These ideas are a mixture of in the bedroom, in a cam session or in a dungeon where more equipment may be available. Please remember to have a safe word agreed beforehand

  1. Tie your partner up using rope, handcuffs or cable ties you can tie their hands and feet together also known as a hogtie or just tie them to the bed.
  2. Restrained & Teased –  Once you have them restrained you can tease them using edge play, orgasm control, tease and denial etc.
  3. Restraint plus Deprivation – Restraining them by rope or cuffs and blindfolding them  as well as putting headphones over the ears so they can’t hear or see or have any clue what you are going to do next
  4. Sensation Play while restrained – Again restrained using different sensations on the person from soft feathers, to food, to lotions, you can step this up a gear to more painful items like whips, chains, electros. Tens  machines
  5. Breast Bondage if restraining your female partner you could also tie her breasts up and slap them
  6. Mummification – Using clingfilm and duct tape Restrain them as if they were in a latex body bag  ( Keep scissors handy in case you need to cut them loose)
  7. Cock bondage – Can be done using a chastity device or tieing the cock up and covering it
  8. Bring on the Toys – While you have them restrained you can try using some sex toys on them
  9. Light spanking – While they are restrained you could use some spanking ideas
  10. Facesitting – Sit on his face and demand he licks your pussy don’t move until he does it properly
  11. Watersports – If this is something you want to experiment with then golden shower while he/she is restrained can be a really kinky way – If you enjoy watersports/Goldenshowers be sure to check out our kinky ideas for fetish webcam shows
  12. Use  them as furniture – Put your feet up and relax on them as they lay helpless and bound
  13. Dungeon furniture for Bondage – Cages, Benches, St Andrews Cross and Benches are just some of the furniture you will find in a BDSM Dungeon, however you can improvise if at home and use your imagination to make your own furniture become a cage or a restraint – Buy a dog crate and a padlock, use chairs to tie your partner to, tie to a bed frame. Make your own slings and suspension.
  14.  Online sex shops – Have some great things that can be used for any type of
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  16. Spreader bars – Spreading them wide and milking them
  17. Bondage Mits –These can be  a lot of fun , Put these on your partner or make your own using shopping bags, they have no scope to do anything as you tease them, Give them permission to wank but they only have  30 seconds to get out of the bondage mitts, if they fail they don’t get to wank but get to see you enjoy yourself 9 So many twists to this one and I can guarantee you it’s a lot of fun)
  18.  Different Sexual Positions when in restraints – There is so many different sexual positions and techniques that can be used when restrained, experiment a little or read our article on it –
  19.  Pleasure & Pain – One of my favourites while you have your slave/partner restrained and blindfolded keep them guessing as to what is coming next – Is it something pleasurable or something painful?
  20. Hot & Cold – Using hot items like candle wax and cold items like ice – Keep your partner guessing about what you will be using next.
  21. Tie & Tickle – Hugely entertaining for the one doing the tickling, this can be done in a way that frustrates your partner or in a sensual way with a happy ending

21 –Messy Food Play –Eat food from them or vice versa.

22 – Teasing your partner while restrained –Do  sexy strip tease dress up in something hot and sexy and slowly remove clothes and run yourself against them whilst they are so helpless

23 – Have Sex With Someone Else –Not for all couples but for those who have a more open relationship, trying tieing your partner up in some form of restraint and then having sex with someone else almost like the cuckold scenario

24- Watch Porn – Watch porn and Masturbate as they watch you but they must remain  in restraints

25 –Male/Female Chastity Belts – Once you have them in restraints you could put a chastity device on them, this can work for both male and female – Plenty of online sex shops sell these.

26 –Nipple clamps/pegs – Put clamps or pegs on the nipples and apply different types of sensations

27-Electros/Medical play –Perhaps a bit of roleplay doctor/nurse

28 –Clitoral toys/ Use some clitoral stimulators but don’t let her cum

29- Tickle them with an object – From around the house when they are tied, and blindfolded, make them guess what the object is, if they guess wrong they must have a form of punishment.

30 – Wear Kinky OutfitsRoleplay – Dress up in latex, leather or Pvc if you are the one in charge. You can also roleplay many other scenarios, Have the person restrained to the bed, chair, or a St Andrew’s Cross as you are dressed in fetish clothes,

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Bondage is Part Of The Bdsm Scene

Bondage usually always shows up prominently in all BDSM scenarios as well as erotic roleplay. It really is the most widely known feature of BDSM perhaps even outside the BDSM arena, and you do not have to have a BDSM-oriented sexual erotic personality to perform In fact“vanilla” people will be able to develop into experts of the specialized areas of tying their lovers up.

Bondage possesses a  sexual interest to individuals of all sexes as well as almost all erotic orientations, in a dominant ( top ) or submissive ( bottom ) role.

Certainly one of the reasons for bondage in BDSM is for you to restrain someone ( often referred to as the bottom ) in a BDSM posture.

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This might include basically tying the hands and wrists together in-front or perhaps behind. Additional placements include the utilization of a waistline strap to anchor the hands and wrists to the front part, rear or even sides.

Additional widely used positions are the spread eagle, with the hands displayed away and also fixed by wrists and also ankles to bedposts, doorway framework or even various other anchoring points; the hogtie, which secures each one wrist to the matching ankle behind the back ( broader , cushioned restraints for example bondage cuffs are advantageous with this ) ; the ball tie, which ensures wrists to ankles, in-front, with the knees pulled up to as high as the upper body; the crotch rope, which entails tugging rope of some sort between the labia to employ strain to the feminine genitals .

Occasionally a knot is set in the rope at the place of the clitoris to magnify the feeling. A crotch rope may also be utilized on men, possibly putting stress straight on the scrotum or even including a bind to catch the scrotum.

Additional placements consist of the reverse prayer placement ( not advised unless of course, the subject matter possesses versatile shoulder muscles), as well as an over-arm tie , wherein the arms are introduced over the head, as well as the wrists fixed firmly with each other behind the head by an amount of rope, cord or perhaps strapping to a strap at the waistline .

The kinds of restraints utilized in bondage consist of rope, that is usually favoured due to its actual versatility. Rigging, nevertheless, needs significant ability, as well as training to, perform safely.

Other kinds of restraints consist of chains, handcuffs, thumb cuffs as well as tummy chains. Institutional restraints, for example, straitjackets can be utilized in certain roleplays, as well as purpose-made bondage items, including mono gloves, sleepsacks, bondage hooks together with bondage benches which are offered also.

Certain BDSM play events provide you with “bondage workshops”, in which partners, or perhaps individuals other-wise consenting with one another, may perform tying each other under the training, supervision as well as the guidance of a skilled bondage Master/Dominant

Different types of bondage scenarios and Ideas Include

  1. predicament bondage
  2. anal bondage
  3. diaper bondage
  4. sissy bondage
  5. pantyhose
  6. tit bondage scenarios
  7. suspension
  8. Outdoor
  9. Abdl
  10. Water
  11. Forced

These are just a few different types of sessions you can have as well as the selfbondage scenarios and predicaments.